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Showing posts with label DATE NIGHT. Show all posts
Showing posts with label DATE NIGHT. Show all posts

8.18.2014

DATE NIGHT IN THE SLOPE


So this is the part where our good fortune starts to get insulting. See, we found ourselves a babysitter. She lives in our building. She's fourteen, just starting high school, her parents are rad, and she makes a killer gluten-free chocolate chip cookie. Just today, she brought over a tupperware full of hand made cherry truffle ice cream. Cherry. Truffle. The best part is she charges a really fair rate--like, what you'd pay a babysitter where *you* live, not what you'd pay a babysitter where *I* live. I am not even fetching you, do you think I would fetch with you? She is the cherry (truffle) on our Brooklyn sundae. Also we've been having these crazy in-depth conversations about Pretty Little Liars. She's got herself some good theories.

We decided to celebrate this and the fact that we no longer live in a culinary dead zone by having ourselves a somewhat last-minute date night. On a Wednesday. Because we could! Hey, feel like coming downstairs? We're in the mood for a night out! Stop it I am getting so carried away with myself! 

We have a lot of really great restaurants in our area. In our part of town there are easily three or four Mexican or Salvadorian joints on every block, a killer taco truck just the perfect distance away by bike, plus all the Brooklyn places that get all the write ups in the New Yorker, so point to you, Brooklyn! We are swimming in dinner options. Man cannot live on The Smith and Jacob's Pickles alone, Upper West Side.

We're taking these places down systematically until we've eaten everything available in our 30 block radius. On Wednesday, we started at Taldé.


Do you know what I like about this picture? The water drips down Brandon's shirt. There is no greater equalizer than a sweaty glass of water.


Doesn't slow him down. ;)


Admittedly we were on an "easy date night high", so we took a lot of goofy photos of ourselves posing with our food.


Derr.

The kare kare was PERFECTION. The Korean chicken was maybe too spicy for me. Brandon ordered the cashew rice because he was attempting "vegetarianism" at that moment. "I've only had meat three times this week!" 

Side note that's about to take over this entire post, but you know, one of the things I like best about that Brandon Holbrook is the way he's always slow to try new things. He has a very specific way in which he views his life. But then, once he does try a new thing (and he always does, which is adorable in and of itself), he'll go about it in the weirdest way possible. The other day he told a friend he was on an "elimination diet" to narrow in on a possible dairy intolerance, so he was "eating a lot of string cheese to see what happens." I'm over here on the couch going... hysterical, this man is hysterical. I've told him a few times how elimination diets work--I was the one who suggested it--but no, this way makes more sense to Brandon, so here we are, five cheese sticks in. Is this just a guy thing? He never seems to do anything the way anybody else would think to do things, because how on earth could there be any other way to do things? You mean I'm not the first person to do this? And then you tell him these things, like, "It's Pink Eye. I promise," and when it's Pink Eye he's like, shocked. Or he'll say, "You know, I really like these pants! The fit is really current," the first time he wears them five months after I bought them for him. Or, "Man, this album sounds so much better on vinyl, come here and listen!" What can I say, that's why I like him.


But yes, too spicy. 


It got dark, we paid the check, we took a long, slow stroll through the brownstones, we stopped for some churros and ice cream, we held hands and laughed at each others' jokes, we stopped in and bought a notebook at the CVS because we happened to pass it and I happened to remember that I needed one ("This is not really date night material, Natalie"), and then we went home and paid the sitter and checked in on Huck in his bed and sat out on our fire escape and talked about all the silliest things. And now you know everything we did on our date night, start to finish, in excruciating detail. Aren't you relieved?


You know, the weirdest thing about marriage is the way you can go for months without being the same people you met and fell in love with. Instead you're "Mom" and "Dad" or "Office Worker" and "Person who researches all the local preschool options," and while you really love those people too, when you get to peel that all back and remember that, Oh yeah, I really like this you, for all these other reasons I'd forgotten all about! It's a pretty great feeling, isn't it? 

And.. see what I did there? Oh brother. All us people having all the same experiences, finding it all so new and different and unique. What a funny world. I'm grateful these days that mine comes with a fire escape. Because fire escapes are romantic. Not to mention useful.

Quick somebody end this post before it gets even dumber! 

The end. ;)

7.18.2014

TEN DATES // 10 DAY AT THE LAKE


Greetings from Camp Anawanna

If I think about it hard enough I can still conjure up exactly the scent of pine and sunshine and warmed wet earth that followed us around all weekend upstate. I'm already starting to over-romanticize it. Warning! Once I start to over-romanticize things it's really hard to stop, and pretty soon I'm researching real estate options and plotting out things like where I'd keep my llama and what she'd like to eat. I'd been gunning for a summer lake trip for whatever reason for, like, four years, and it was one of those instances where somehow it managed to live up to the hype I had pumped into it and how often does that happen? Beach house smeach house. As for me and my house, we will choose the lake.

And so it was that on Sunday we drove through Bethel (Woodstock! Party on, Garth!) to Lake Superior for a swim and the best BLT experience this planet has ever given me. (The waitress, a kind older woman, ruffled Huck's hair as he asked for a glass of milk and it was so lovely I could cry.) 

Huck had been experiencing the kind of jonesing for a swimming day that only a three-year-old can produce, it was nothing short of spectacular. From the moment we crossed the threshold into New Jersey on the George Washington bridge it was all he could talk about. He insisted on carrying his swim trunks in one fist all day, every day, everywhere. Just in case we happened to pass a swimming hole, the man was going to be prepared. After exploring a bit and scoping out the swimming situation, we were finally able to find the perfect spot for a three-year-old who sometimes believes he's an octopus. We were relieved, if we didn't deliver on that swim day we were going to have to live forever with our shame.  On first glance when I got out of the car I swear to you the lake winked at us. It sparkled! I think the clouds may have parted too and I'm pretty sure I heard a choir of voices from somewhere in the distance. And if there were ever any sound I wish I could play on repeat it would be the sound Huck made as he giggled through a very high-pitched Woo-hooooo! as he raced down the hill.

Do you know what I want to remember about this weekend, and why I think it was such a wonderful escape, is just how long it took for the last of the city chaos to work its way out of our systems, and just how intensely good it felt once it had. I forget sometimes that the amount of work it takes for even the simplest things out here, like grabbing a gallon of milk, or getting to the post office before they close, is bordering on stupid, and I should give myself more credit. But by Sunday we had acclimated perfectly to the slower pace and I was able to sit there at the water's edge, lake water lapping at my legs, thinking absolutely zero things while I watched Huck splash about and explore in the shallow end of the lake. Far from the hustle of Manhattan there's a heart rate better suited to chirping birds and open skies and tiny towns built on dirt roads. It was good to remember I could get there, and it was good to remember what it felt like. 

Lake swimming is gross and fantastic. Mud! Weird creatures! The soundtrack to Pocahontas stuck in my head!

Here come the photos, aren't you excited?



Please to appreciate Brandon Holbrook, always fully dressed in the least appropriate places to be fully dressed.


Huck schmoozing the hot lifeguard. He knows what he's doing. 

7.16.2014

TEN DATES // 09 FORT DELAWARE


Any time the Holbrooks come across something that falls under the "nerd" umbrella we absolutely have to do it. It's in our blood, and my love for nerddom runs deep, so of course we made time during our weekend upstate to visit Fort Delaware, because how could we not!? Any time you get dudes in tights is a good time for me. (That sounds terrible haha.)


If I could smell-o-vision this room to you, I would. Oh my good holy pancakes it smelled amazing. Woodsy, cool, dry, sweet, and seriously I might need an intervention; the whole time we were there I kept telling Brandon how making my own clothing, all the way from flax to finish, would be so gratifying to me. I'm sure he's terrified I'll show up with a spinning wheel soon. Though actually, this is a hobby he's been very supportive of. He told me he's hoping I learn to make macrame pot hangers next. This is true love.


Brandon snapped this photo after Huck tripped on an uneven floorboard and skinned his knee. We tell Huck his scrapes and bruises are big boy medals of honor. He's gotten so big and so capable, and so strong, but with it comes harder bumps and bigger bruises. I've started carrying an arsenal of bandaids and wet wipes in my bag. Doctor Mom! Every now and then I still get asked to kiss an ouchie better. Once Huck had me kiss a bumped nog right in front of a really cute girl, this was very manly of him I thought. (Huck prefers to play with the 11-year-old girls, smart kid.)


ON ME: hat from one of those touristy hat stands in Times Square (five bucks, holla) // American Apparel tote //  Saltwaters (same pair going on 8 years now, can you get over that?) // my dress was a gift from Lynne at Cardigan New York. (Smallish ladies always drowning in Banana Republic, rejoice! Lynne's stuff is TRUE TO SIZE. Which NEVER HAPPENS ANYMORE.)

ON HUCK: Tank + shorts from GapKids (not online anymore? but pretty sure they were in the girl's section) // and Saltwater sandals (because matching your kid is supes cool, guys)

The end!

7.14.2014

TEN DATES // 08 WEEKEND UPSTATE

Yours truly, near Woodstock in Bethel, New York

Over the weekend the Holbrooks stole away upstate because they frikkin needed a break. 

No no no, it wasn't that dire. (But it was getting there.)

I've been really lucky this year to work with the most amazing sponsor, HowAboutWe. It's been such a pleasure. We had three dates remaining in our Ten Dates for Ten Years project, but when a date popped up on our date menu for a weekend in the Catskills at a converted schoolhouse, we knew we had to combine our final three dates into one massive date--a weekend date!--because the package looked so amazing. And then we invited Huck to come along because we're generally pretty nice parents like that. Technically I'm not contracted to write about this weekend; my contracted posts have all been fulfilled and the project is all wrapped up, but I want to write about this weekend because, 1. Duh, 2. It was really amazing, and everyone should make a Catskills trip this summer, and 3. I just really love HowAboutWe. I love you, HowAboutWe! We'll be lifelong users so long as we live where services are available. I hope they're available where you are. Also I made a weaving friend out of the deal, and look nerds, fiber friends are hard to find. We're maybe the weirdest hobby ever.

The timing couldn't have been more perfect. Last week the final manuscript of my book was due. I'm telling you, the level of stress those deadlines cause me is straight comical. I was such a mess those last days (which sort of explains all of last year, in retrospect), imagining illnesses and whole body diseases and general doom for everyone I loved... I handed it in early (Gold star!) (Hermione moment!) and then I was ready to celebrate. Dare I say it? I'm really proud of this thing. Really proud. All along I kept my expectations low and just felt grateful to have the experience (it's so cool to see how the publishing industry works from the inside, so cool), but I'm finally starting to believe my editors, who've loved it from the get-go and have told me time and time again how great it will be and that, no, the stuff I'm submitting is not crap, and yes, we are happy with it, geez, relax! Now that I've seen the whole thing together and read it all in one shot... you guys. I'm so excited for you to read it. (March! 2015! Should I come to your town on a book tour!? :)

This weekend was such a blessing. It was so good it was near close to perfect. We came back completely refreshed and ready to face whatever the city can throw at us. 

I so can't wait to go up there again. 

A few photos...


A few more to come! Hope your weekend was lovely and relaxing as well. Has this summer not been the greatest ever!? :)

5.06.2014

TEN DATES / 07


for our seventh date with HowAboutWe, we took the whole clan down to the lower east side to check out economy candy for a fun scavenger hunt. family date! (of all the dates we've been on, this was one of brandon's most favorite.) it happened to be the day before easter, so not only was the place jam packed, it was also kind of exciting in an added, magical, "kid in a candy store" kind of way, remembering all our past easter baskets as kids as we poked through all the old-school candy i could have sworn you couldn't find anymore... not to mention all the harry + the hendersons trading cards...

HowAboutWe has been sending us on ten dates this year to help us celebrate our tenth year of marriage (can you believe how old we are, crap). we have had the time of our lives with this project. we always look forward to the next date on the calendar, and browse through the date listings here and there on our own to boomark dates that look like fun. brandon will sometimes come home from work after a day where i've been poking around on the site and say, "hey, archery lessons in queens! yes!" shopping for the date has been half the fun. and i just love how it's gotten us out of our comfort zone and into new situations and neighborhoods. instead of asking a bunch of our friends for their recommendations and making phone calls and trying to piece together an activity, you just surf around and click "book this date." it's like having a good friend in the city who's been to all the fun stuff, knows how to set it up perfectly, and then does it for you. 

like.... economy candy! we got there and the owners of the shop were ready for us. it was fun to meet them, i had no idea what a family operation the place is. it's recently been handed off to their son, who has his work cut out for him, the place is crazy busy, and mom + pop were there that day just to help out with the holiday crowds. they handed us our baskets and rules, and off we went. basically we were just poking through the stuffed aisles of sugar looking for specific candies that we then got to take home free of charge. (we also bought a good six pounds of miscellaneous candy that we haven't gotten to the bottom of yet.) while we were there we bumped into a few of our friends out on an easter candy run, huck charmed the pants off the owner and got himself a free t-shirt, plus chocolate covered marshmallow peeps. what more could you want out of a family date? (HowAboutWe has an entire section of family-friendly dates!)


once our candy quota for the entire year had been hit we went down the street to the meatball shop for an early dinner. and on the way there i was surprised to see THIS! (felicity nerds, get ready...)


EPSTEIN'S BAR! 

it's real! 


so. 

for dates eight through ten we're doing something extra special, kind of an early 11th wedding anniversary, in the catskills. i already can't wait. 

this post was sponsored by HowAboutWe. want your own date night? it's free to browse the dates on HowAboutWe. and if you want to give it a whirl, click HERE for $50 off your first date (new members in active markets only: NYC, SF, LA, Chicago + Seattle)

on me: jeans / sweater / shoes / bag